“Listen to the Mustn’ts,” “The Dragon of Grindly Grun,” and “Headphone Harold” are works by what writer, first published in collections released in 1974, 1981, and 1996, respectively?

The four most recent singles to reach #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart that have parentheses in their officially credited song titles were all released from 2008-2012. Name any one of the artists who released those songs, all four of whom are solo women.